Importance...

When we give someone value more than yourself called 'Importance.' a Value either person make more demanding or who knows they also give the same importance to their life to you.

When we give someone importance, we think that person have some changes just because of our over importance but reality is that, it's just happening in our mind. And we expect more from that particular person for yourself. Our mind become doubtful at this stage.

better way : Stay neutral. If give someone importance to you, give them same. not more than yourself. neutral will help less expectation.

More expectations makes frustrate.